It’s Warrior Wednesday: If Only He Came Soon….


Have you ever felt frustrated, overwhelmed, and in disarray about a situation in your life…. where you wished and thought, if only God had intervened soon enough, your loved one would not have died? If Only God had intervened soon enough, the business or dream you were trying to make happen would not have collapsed? If Only, He had come soon enough, things would not have turned out the way it did.

            “Lord if only…Lord if only… Lord if Only!”

Many are afraid to admit this but there have been times in my life where I just didn’t understand the initial outcome of a promise I knew God had deposited into my life, or why I put so much work into something or someone and it turns sour when I was sure it was God who’d asked me to do that or forge that relationship.

Join me in exploring some scriptural verses today to help ease our minds:
John 11:39 New International Version(NIV) John 11: 1-45

39 “Take away the stone,” he said.
“But, Lord,” said Martha, the sister of the dead man, “by this time there is a bad odor, for he has been there four days.”

Imagine a loved one gravely ill; your family members prayed and fasted and at the end of the day, that loved one dies… How do you reconcile with this?

Now imagine, a dream you had nursed for long, you have pumped all that you had in it, prayerfully considering your path, pushing forward because you really believed you were made to solve that problem through your innovative idea. At the end of the day, things did not happen the way you envisioned.

Imagine a relationship you were truly dedicated to building, knowing that this person is who you will live the rest of your life with; or go into business with, or perhaps you were meant to mentor, but then it all ended in painful breakups.

The Story of Lazarus:
The story in John 11 is that of Lazarus. He fell gravely ill and his family did all they could to get Jesus attention to visit. When he finally got to the town, he was met with mourners in sack clothes … there was much wailing and turmoil. Many probably did not understand what Jesus was doing as he walked among them examining their countenance. I can imagine all of the murmuring and some saying, what is Jesus doing here? Didn’t He realize that the man – Lazarus is now dead? Some even said it to his face, don’t you see or know that Lazarus has been dead for 4 days? When we needed you to come, you did not show up? What could you possible do now that his body is decaying?

Jesus Response to the People’s Behavior:
How could they have doubted the father? How could they have doubted that he did not hear them? How could they have doubted that He knew exactly what had happened and that he was still the same person who’d performed much miracles before Lazarus death?

But that God many be glorified and that he (Jesus) fulfills his promise…he called out to Lazarus.. and commanded him to come forth from underneath the grave. Immediately, the stones covering the mouth of the tomb were pushed back and Lazarus came out.
300px-'The_Raising_of_Lazarus',_tempera_and_gold_on_panel_by_Duccio_di_Buoninsegna,_1310–11,_Kimbell_Art_Museum                     Source: The Raising of Lazarus, by Duccio, 1310–11

While we may not understand why it takes Forever for God to answer our prayers, He has heard us the very first time we made our request. Often the answers are waiting for us to fully align with God’s words, be ready to receive it, having the right attitude to sustain the answer.

Wisdom Nugget for Today:
Take the limits off GOD! Take the limits off His Power. He is God who answers ALL prayers and because He sees the future more than we do, HE ANSWERS THE WAY HE KNOWS IT WILL EVENTUALLY BENEFIT US.

In the case of Lazarus, Jesus was not 4 days late but HE WAS RIGHT ON TIME. Likewise, whatever the dream is that seems dead right now, if you take the limits off God, HE will breathe life into it and cause it to prosper at the right time. Our time is never His time. He owns the past, the present and the future and because He knows your DNA, He will never allow any vision, dreams, or goals to crush you ..which can happen if fulfilled sooner.

Today, choose to take the limit off God.Move into the realm of possibilities, trusting that he knows the right time to release that which you have asked. Continue to abide in the will of the father for your life, crushing every fear, every doubts, every past pains from failure with the understanding that today’s FAILURE is a platform for TOMORROW’S GREATNESS.

Next Time,
Be Inspired, Be Motivated, Be Of Sentimental Value, Be Authentic

Dr. Princess Fumi S. Hancock, BSN, MA, DNP.
Author, Screenwriter, Speaker, Behavioral Health & Transformation Interventionist

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Warrior Wednesday: From the Palace of Glam & Chic Comes an Inspiring Story Not Quite Similar to the Movie, Coming to America!

It’s Warrior Wednesday: While some would say her story is similar to the Movie, Coming to America Dr. Princess Fumi Stephanie Hancock’s opinion differs!

 From the Palace of Glam & Chic comes an inspiring story quite similar to the movie, Coming to America!

A mentor to many,  RN turned Storyteller, Entrepreneur (Let’s Go Innovate), and Philanthropist at heart Adassa Adumori Foundation comes from a Royal Monarch in the Western Region of Africa. Her grandfather, His Royal Majesty, King Odundun Ogunleye from the Adumori Ruling House of Emure Kingdom, in Ekiti State, Nigeria (a family who have ruled as far back as the 1200’s) was given the title, Odundun II, after his choice of a leaf that his people believed brought peace and harmony wherever it grew.

Princess Fumi’s mother, Princess Remi Ogunleye , an orphan and an unlikely candidate for marriage to the prince by royal standards, became a part of the young prince Ademola Ogunleye’s heart and caused an immediate rift amongst the kingdom’s maidens… a story much like Queen Hadassah “Esther,” the celebrated Jewish Girl from the Bible.

Despite her royal background, Princess Fumi had a dream to one day write books, design signatory fashion accessories, host her own TV show (The Princess in Suburbia) and make a name for herself outside of royalty. These became a driving force behind her agreement with her father’s demands to come to America to further her graduate studies in the early 80s’. One thing her father did not bank on was that Princess Fumi would later decide to stay behind in America, fend for herself and live a simple life in American. Life as she knew it in America was not easy for her… divorce… lost her home… her business… her mind… and was on the verge of loosing her children….But One Event Changed Her Life Forever!

Her very first television script the Royal Bird was auctioned to one of Africa’s Popular Television Networks, NTA. Now, almost 30 years later, she is haunted by her royal responsibilities, she understands the importance of her royal blood, and the obligations she must face on a daily basis to help her people in Emure Kingdom. She is often called to cross international waters to address country leaders on education, social welfare and healthcare reforms, a privilege she relishes and doesn’t take for granted.

On the throes of winning 5 awards for her soon to be release movie, Of Sentimental Value,  and her books becoming bestsellers, she shares her story of second chances and new beginnings, a beacon of restored hope and a princess’s determination to bridge the gap between the western world and her people.

On April 25, 2015, at 9 AM CST, Dr. Princess Fumi Hancock will be interviewed by Her Southern Warrior Sisters on the Radio Show~ a 2 HOUR EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW…..

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